Dear parents, your children should not suffer because of you!

Children are born in this beautiful world not by their own wish, but it happens according to the wish of their parents. After marriage, the parents plan for adopting children, they proceed and the blessings of the God help them to create a family. So, if anyone becoming fathers and mothers has plenty of duties to fulfill.

The parents must take the responsibility of upbringing of their children in the most appropriate way. If you have become a parent then you must have the physical, mental and economical abilities of upbringing your children. The responsibility is yours, I repeat, it’s your responsibility to take the utmost care of your children. Letting a child grow up by the mercy of the God is nothing but the act of an idiot. You have brought your children in this world and won’t do anything to bring them up properly by citing various reasons is not worthy enough.

Before becoming a father or mother you both should’ve thought about your capabilities, whether you are able enough to raise your children. If you are not able and competent enough of upbringing a child then forget about marriage and let alone becoming  the ‘Muppet’ parents – the parents who live on the mercy of God and does nothing.

God helps them who helps themselves. The blessings of the God have given you, your children. But to bring the children in this world you had to act on the matter – the God automatically didn’t send your children. So, to raise your children you also have to perform the duties appropriately and the God will help you.

Every parent wishes the love and respect from their children. But in many families, the parents demand it in the most undemocratic way. They portray themselves as a dictator and demand respect. But in turn they tend to lose respect in the course of time. No one has ever been able to achieve love and respect from their children by being a dictator. For a certain period of time these things work, but not for long. I agree that to raise your children there is the need of rules and regulations. But by being an army General you can’t demand a constant respect throughout the whole life.

Again, it’s also not all about surfacing the child in this world and doing all the formalities and keep barking all the time to remind the children about your contributions throughout their life. I said earlier that the upbringing should be in a proper way – your children must not pay the price for your mistakes.

It’s the nature’s rule – whenever the parents make mistakes, automatically it affects the children in the most adverse way and make them suffer in the long run. The parents must be the role models for their children. They are not in this world to pay the heavy prices of your mistakes which you are habituated to make every day.

 Why will your children pay a heavy price of your mistakes? Why will they suffer for you? Why will they be deprived for your lack of financial support? Why will they suffer for your day to day madness and mistakes? Why will they be ignored by all for your stupidity?

If you have so many shortcomings then you people should not have gotten married, you people should not think of becoming parents. The children are not your slaves that they will digest whatever you will say and whatever the wrongs you will do.

You have brought them in this world and it’s you who have to take care of them.

Your children should not suffer because of you.

Thank You

Faisal Caesar